VALENTINE DAY

Many cases are reported and larger number of cases from cities all over India are not reported, they come in confidential to Helping Hands to seek help confidentially and some want legal redresal of being abandoned, cheated, exploited, divorces, including murders, attempted suicides with our NE sisters from NE including Gorkhas sisters from West Bengal.

These cases after careful analysis by me have common pattern …HOW OUR MOSTLY NAIVE NE FEMALES who came for studies or jobs are wooed in an unthinkable/bizarre ways and means to show their so called love for them.These pretending cities romeos include doctors, lawyers, pilots, managers, house owners, college students, shopkeepers, sales boys, fashion designers, spa owners, even teachers.

Whereas 95% of these Romeos in cities pretended to be in love to just to flirt and to have good time with our NE girls temporarily for few years.

What hurt me most in these cases are 50% of these cases are outcome of initiation from Valentine days or from their place of Sunday workship.

Bizarre wooing acts of cities Romeos to our gullible sisters – like standing below these NE females rent house from midnight just to give her red rose and valentine gifts especially by foreigners 7 footers hunks or like sending valentine greetings written with blood to impress our NE girls.

Sending barrage of quotes/verses from religious books just to impress NE girls every morning by whatsapp, every sunday attending the place of worship, gifting iphone on their birthdays……

list of bizarre techniques of wooing our sisters are endless….

Few bizarre cases of failed hallucinated valentine day alliances or promises or swayed off the feets on valentine day ….to repent later with indelible pains and battered broken life.

One NE female victim from Meghalaya who attempted suicide still can’t believe how her boyfriend, 7 footer hunk can stoop to low.

The Naga female still in shock how her loving relationship partner from Delhi just threw her out after dangerous abortion.

An Assamese female marrying in place of worship by putting bindi on valentine days and started living together as wife and husband, to be abandoned after 3 years after finishing the studies in Noida.

Darjeeling female allow MBBS student to be her would be husband and lived together for 5 years and she was abandoned after he passed his mbbs. Left broken, her hard earn money squandered, attempted suicide, living low depressed life in Ghaziabad.

Manipuri female married to a guy from Delhi in Paschim Vihar without parent consent, was tortured and harrassed after delivery of a daughter, came to me in battered condition, somehow, managed ticket and left to Imphal with broken life with tiny little girl child.

One Manipur female left after 7 years with her so called husband at Faridabad, parent abandoned her at Safdarjung hospital to die, we tried to save her, but she died all alone and Helping Hands volunteer cremated her at Punjabi Bagh crematorium as per Hindu rites.

How a Mizo female attempted suicides at Dwarka after abandonment by her foreigner living together hubby ,somehow, Helping Hands volunteer counselor helped her to overcome her depression .

I cannot forget where, I had made an arrangement as foster brother for one nurse from Manipur for her marriage in Church in Delhi as she was was in advance stage of pregnancy, meet her living together hubby from African Country, had left her and broke his promise to have the babies and to marry her nurse Manipur female in church, this rogue run away by cutting all his connection of mobile, facebook etc leaving behind his advance pregnant girl friend in south Delhi hospital after he was asked to deposit 7 lakhs for premature delivery of two babies…

…..this devastated abandonment lead to delivery of twin little girls prematurely and the mother collapsed due to shock of her would be husband left her all alone in hospital. Little two girls died after 3 days …..with deep pain, two little girls were buried in tiny two graves at Christian Grave Yard at sector 23 Dwarka, Delhi. Still the graves of these two little babies are yet to dry.

Still i am choking with emotion, how the devastated naga brother still see her weeping dead sister in dream, who was brought dead from cities in mysterious circumstances . Were told that she had relationship with city guy from south west region.Though she was buried with all rituals of her religion. Her brother still seeking justice through Helping Hands.

I have long list of such painful nemesis of valentine courting resulting in devastated life of many young innocent NE females in cities.

These mischievous LUCIFEROUS WOOING tactics by these cunning cities Romeos and how our NE gullible girls are flattered, made to feel like in heaven for few days especially on occasions like valentine day, their birthdays, new year or X-mas days….. resulting into unholy ephermal relationships leading to destruction of their reputations, life and jobs ….

…… sometime leading to fatal outcome, leaving them in lonely forlorn from where they can’t start again due to indelible damages done to their lives, bodies etc.

It’s my personal opinion sharing based on real life tragedies nemesis of Valentine courting in cities by our NE females…. …..

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After all, they all come to me with tears for succour and justice …..when they are battered, hurt, injured, abandoned, thrown out, left, cheated in cities……….

– Just pray and hope our NE sisters are wooed by such valentine partners… who will grow old together with them for life …..

Thanks.

Robin Hibu IPS, Spl Commissioner of Police, Delhi.

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